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10 Tips for Students to Reduce College Application Stress

10 ways to reduce college application stress

Aarrgh! It’s creeping up on you…you can feel it…it’s reaching out to grab you like a thousand spindly fingers…it’s COLLEGE APPLICATION TIME!

Send that Stress Packing! Here’s how:

1.Get OrganizedStart by:

A. Writing Everything Down

Deadlines.
Dates of tests.
Application due dates for each school.
Any other paperwork you’ll need or deadlines you’ll have to meet (financial aid, etc).
Letters of recommendation you’ll need and who you’ll ask.
The number of supplemental essays required by each school and each essay prompt (write down these prompts exactly as they’re given to you). Then:

B. Make a Calendar

Work backwards from each deadline or task and decide when each one needs to be completed.
**IMPORTANT: Give yourself twice the amount of time you think you’ll need. Trust me on this – everything will take longer than you think.

C. Set up a Filing System

You’ll need both a virtual and real filing system for each school (for email and snail mail).
You might also want to try Evernote, which is an easy way to access photos, documents and notes from any computer you’re on (it’s free).

Don’t want your parents bugging you? Take the initiative and stick to your schedule.

2.Pick a Range of Colleges You Like and Will Like You. Be realistic when you’re putting together your college list. It’s great to have one or two reach schools, but make sure to include schools that you like and that are likely to admit you.

3.Look for Schools that are Test Optional. ACT and SAT scores not your thing? Over 850 colleges are test optional. These schools believe that a combination of grades, recommendations and extra-curricular activities will give them a better picture of how you’ll do in college. For a complete list of schools that are test-optional, go to FairTest.org.

4.Don’t Wait Until School Starts to Write Your Essays. You’ll have homework, homecoming, applications and activities —  how are you going to have time for all those essays? (No, you can’t write well without sleep.)  Start your college application essays during the summer, when you have time to think and write. This goes double if you’re applying early — you may have several supplemental essays due November 1. Plan ahead and put those deadlines on your calendar!

5.Don’t Talk to Other Students About Your College Applications. This is a MAJOR stressor. Your friends come up to you and want to know what your essay topic is, or where you’re applying, or why you haven’t heard yet since theyve all heard. It’s easy to compare yourself to other students, but DON’T GO THERE. Enjoy the search and be confident that you’re applying to the schools that are right for you. When friends ask if your application’s in or your essays are done just say, “It’s coming along, thanks.” Then change the subject. Eventually they’ll get the idea and stop asking.

6.Get Moving. Ride a bike, go for a run, take the dog for a hike. Spend a few hours not thinking or talking about college. You’ll think better and you’ll feel better, too.

7.It’s YOUR College Tour. Enjoy! You’re on a shopping trip. Keep your eyes off your texts and on the sights. Talk to the tour guide and the students you meet –  ask them what they’re studying and what they love about their school. Then try to imagine yourself as a freshman on campus heading to class, the dorm or to dinner. See if your gut says you want to spend the next four years there.

8.Remember That Your Parents Want the Best for You: Your parents helped get you this far in life and they’re probably going to be a bit protective. It might scare them to think that you’re leaving home or even make them sad. So if they hover over you or ask tour guides embarrassing questions, take a deep breath and remember that they just want what’s best for you.

9. Don’t Narrow Your Options Too Quickly. (The College Helper suggested this tip when they commented on my last post, “7 Tips for Parents to Reduce College Application Stress.”) Some students get focused on attending a particular type of university – a large state school, for example – and never look at private universities or other schools that are outside of what they ‘think’ they want. Take time to explore – you can’t really be certain about what you want until you know what the other types of colleges are all about.

10. If You’re Overwhelmed, Ask for Help. Never be embarrassed to ask for help. Guidance counselors, teachers and private professionals can answer questions, guide you through the application process, provide feedback on your essays, and work with you on achieving your deadlines. Help is out there – you just have to ask for it.

related posts:
7 Tips for Parents to Reduce College Application Stress
Organize Your College Search: Try Evernote

links
Dealing with the Stress of College Applications
Peterson’s: Reducing Stress About College Admission Requirements
New York Times: The Burden of the College Admissions Process (students write about their college application experiences)

Sharon Epstein, FIrst Impressions College Consulting..Sharon Epstein is owner of First Impressions College Consulting
Need help? I work with students everywhere: in-person, over the phone, and by computer. Visit my website for more info.
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7 Tips for Parents to Reduce College Application Stress

7 ways to reduce college application stressFace it: Applying to college is stressful.

Which colleges should be on your list? Which ones can you afford? What questions do you need to ask? What exactly is the Common Application, and why is your child about to have a meltdown over all those essays???

Here are 7 Tips for Parents to Reduce College Application Stress

Be Realistic.  For most students, getting in to the school of their dreams isn’t a lock. Sometimes it’s because they reach too high, but often it’s because schools receive so many applications that qualified students are turned away.

Work with a guidance counselor or other professional to come up with a realistic range of schools, and encourage your student to find several things about each one that he or she can get excited about. And remember: A rejection letter isn’t a sign of failure. If your student has chosen well, he or she will end up at a school that’s a good fit.

Listen. It’s natural to want to be involved in the college application process, but be careful not to project your own hopes and dreams. Allow your student to discuss what he or she wants from a college experience and listen to those ideas. Provide helpful feedback – and keep on listening.

Be Financially Honest.  If money’s an issue, be honest with your student early on. That way he or she will be able to choose a range of affordable schools and explore scholarship opportunities. Don’t let your student set his or her heart on a school you can’t afford.

Help Your Student Get Organized. Set up a plan with your student early on. Help organize paperwork, create alerts for upcoming deadlines, and set goals for completing essays and filling out applications and financial aid requirements.

Use both real and virtual filing systems for college communications, and try Evernote (which I wrote about in a previous blog). Evernote lets you upload notes, photos, videos, and documents from mobile devices and tablets, and access them anywhere. So, for instance, on college visits students can make notes on tablets and take photos and videos on their phones, and then access everything on their computers when they get home (Great for remembering what to write in the “Why do you want to go to our school” essay).

Don’t Micromanage.  Be a guide, not a leader. Allow your student to take ownership in successfully navigating the college admissions process, and be his or her greatest cheerleader. Your student will engage, feel independent, and ultimately become more informed and confident. Those are great qualities to take to college.

Don’t Write the Essays.  Help proofread and check for grammar and spelling mistakes, but don’t choose your student’s essay topics, “improve” word choice, add phrases, or even write entire paragraphs. College admissions readers know the difference between an essay written by someone who’s 17 and someone who’s 40. Reading an essay engineered by mom or dad doesn’t make them happy; they want to get to know the student.

Escape the Family War Zone. Despite a family’s best support, sometimes a student’s stress level can build to overload. If you’re concerned about meltdowns, missed deadlines, and becoming the “application police,” consider enlisting a professional to help with college search, essay writing skills, application filing, etc. The peace and ultimate success will be worth it.

College Application Time Can Be Smooth Sailing — If You Know How to Navigate the Waters.

related posts
Organize Your College Search: Try Evernote

links
Washington Post: Tips for Maximizing Your College Admissions Visit
Advice for Parents on Surviving College Application Stress
Dealing with the Stress of College Applications
New York Times: College’s High Cost, Before You Even Apply

Sharon Epstein, FIrst Impressions College Consulting..Sharon Epstein is owner of First Impressions College Consulting
Need help? I work with students everywhere: in-person, over the phone, and by computer. Visit my website for more info.
Connect with me on Google+, Twitter and Pinterest:

follow Sharon Epstein on Twitterfollow Sharon Epstein on pinterest

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Explaining a Bad Grade in a College Application Essay

I worked with a young woman who’d missed a good chunk of  her junior and senior years due to illness. Even though she tried to make up the work, her grades suffered. When I asked if she was going to explain her illness in her college application, she said no, she didn’t think an excuse would help her chances.

In fact, the opposite is true.

First, let’s be clear about the difference between an excuse and a reason.  Getting marked down because you did the work but couldn’t get out of bed early enough to show up for attendance is an excuse. But if you have a good reason – illness, family problems, etc., you owe it to yourself and to the college to let them know.

Here’s a real-life scenario from an article about admissions at Butler University:

The admissions committee received an application from a student who had gotten straight As freshman and sophomore year. Then his grades tanked.

“In his junior year, F,F,D,D,D,” said Chris Potts, Associate Director of Admissions… “No explanation anywhere, nothing – straight As, and then just bites it junior year.”

What happened? Turned out his dad died, and he was left without a father and having to support his mother.

Problem was, that information wasn’t in the application

Wendy Livingston, Senior Assistant Dean of Admission at The College of William & Mary, says on their blog, “…everything about your application is considered in context (school, regional, experiential, personal…you name the context.) That’s what holistic review is all about. You’re not considered in a vacuum; you’re considered based on who you are, where you’ve been and what type of application you put forward.

So if your transcript has bumps and there’s a valid reason, let the admissions committee know. You can include it in your college application essay or elsewhere in your college application. But give them the whole picture. Your chances will be better for it.

Sharon Epstein, FIrst Impressions College Consulting..Sharon Epstein is owner of First Impressions College Consulting
Need help? I work with students everywhere: in-person, over the phone, and by computer. Visit my website for more info. Connect with me on Google+.

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SAT vs. ACT – Which Test to Take?

SAT or ACT ? Which test should you take? That question is being asked a lot these days, and the answers can be confusing.  To help shed some light on the subject I talked to educational expert Barbara D. Levine, owner and director of Chyten Educational Services in New Canaan, Connecticut.

Barbara, welcome to the blog!
Thank you, Sharon. Glad to do it.

Is there a disadvantage to taking either the ACT or  SAT?

No. Every college now in the country takes either test. So there is no disadvantage to taking one over the other.

It seems like many people feel the SAT is the better choice.

There’s probably still some regional bias in the northeast, where more students still take the SAT. I think that’s because the ACT didn’t start here. The ACT started in the mid-west and was a mid-west exam for many years. It’s only over the last three or four years that the test migrated to both coasts, and the last two or so that every school has accepted both tests.

What are the differences between the ACT and SAT?

The two tests are structured differently. The timing of each test, the pacing within each section, the sections themselves, the content of each test, and how the questions are presented are all different.

Can you elaborate on that? Sure.

The sections are different.

  • The ACT has four multiple choice sections (English, Math, Reading, and Science) plus the essay.
  • The SAT has 10 sections, including the essay. The sections are made up of 3 components: Critical Reading, Math, and Writing.

The content is different.

  • The English section of the ACT focuses on grammar and is heavily weighted toward punctuation. The SAT includes grammar and stresses vocabulary.
  • The math section of the ACT  includes some trigonometry and algebra 2, which aren’t on the SAT.
  • The science section of the ACT is more like a reading exercise. It’s not really a test of your knowledge of science. It asks you to analyze data that’s presented in the form of science questions and charts and graphs, but it doesn’t test your knowledge of biology or physics or chemistry.

The timing is different.

  • On the ACT, you complete each section in turn. The first section is always English for 45 minutes; the next is math for 60 minutes, then reading for 35 minutes and then science for 35 minutes. The essay for the ACT is always at the end of the test.
  • On the SAT the essay is always first. Each section is either 20 or 25 minutes in length. Sections alternate throughout the test, so you can encounter a reading section next to a math section on one test, but two math sections in a row on another test.

The questions are presented differently.

  • The ACT is written in a straightforward fashion. You don’t have to worry about reading between the lines or parsing out any language.
  • The SAT is written in a much more complicated fashion and requires you to analyze what they’re really asking. In fact, for many questions you’re given 2 out of 5 possible answers that are very close. That makes it much harder to determine which is the right answer, because you’re expected to analyze the language that’s being used in the question.

The pacing is different.

  • Because the ACT is written in a much more straight-forward fashion than the SAT, more questions are included in each section and the pacing is quicker.  For instance, in the math section there are 60 questions that need to be answered in 60 minutes.  If a student doesn’t finish the first 40 questions within about a half hour, he/she will probably run out of time and not get to all 60 questions.

How Do I Choose?

SAT –  If you’re very analytic and you like to dissect things mentally, then the SAT might be a very good fit.

ACT – You don’t need that same sort of analytical focus you do for the SAT, you just have to know your content. You still have to know your grammar, and you have to know your math.

WRITING

When it comes to writing it depends on your writing style. If you’re a good writer either test can be a good fit. Both tests have essays. (The essay on the ACT is optional so you want to take it “with writing,” which means with the essay.)

SAT — looks for examples that you can pull from literature and from history. It wants you to use very strong vocabulary and a good turn of phrase. They’re looking for somebody who can express themselves in a very sophisticated fashion.

ACT —  is not looking for that. The ACT is looking to see if you can make your case and give examples, but these can be examples from real life and based on your own experience. The ACT is looking for a little more of a straightforward essay where the vocabulary or command of literature is probably not weighted quite as highly.

Chyten offers a diagnostic test to help students decide. Yes. Chyten has spent a number of years developing a diagnostic tool in order to evaluate up front which test is the better fit for a student so students don’t have to focus on both. And that is a huge time saver for the student.

If I don’t have a tutor, what study tips do you recommend?

  1.     Come up with a plan where you work on preparing for the test probably  about 3 months in advance.
  2.     Try and carve out time every other day or every third day.
  3.     Go through each of the sections.
  4.     Do sample problems.
  5.     Review math. Reviewing math is important because half of the math in both tests is basic algebra and geometry. Most juniors are already at algebra 2 or they’re in pre-calc, so they may have forgotten the basics. You need to review them, and that takes a little time.

Can parents be helpful in this process or do they need to stay out of the way? I think a student needs to be self-motivated. Where parents can be helpful is obviously in being supportive and helping them to figure out how to fit this in to their schedule. But the student has to do the work. The parents can’t do that.

If a student’s having trouble, should they think about finding help? Yes. Even if you are a good test-taker, the challenge is these tests are not like anything else you’ll be doing. For instance, students aren’t taught formal grammar anymore, yet there’s a lot of grammar-based sections in either test. The same for math. You may be a great math student, but being in a math class is very different from taking one of these tests because in math class you’re focused on a single area. Let’s say you’re in algebra 2 or in pre-calc, you stay focused for an entire academic year on that one subject. On the ACT or the SAT you have to be able to bounce back and forth between all types of math questions. So on the SAT you’ve got an algebra question next to a statistics question next to a geometry question next to a numbers and operations question. There’s no method or continuity as to how those questions are asked, and it takes some practice.

How many times can a student take the ACT or SAT? Many students take it three times. There’s no problem taking it three times, but you may not want to take it more than that. We found that often you may get diminishing returns after you’ve taken it three times.

But up to three times you can still get better scores?
Yes. For many students it’s an incremental process. You have to keep working it, and the more time you spend with it the better you get.

Thanks, Barbara!
You’re very welcome, Sharon.

Chyten Educational Services
New Canaan, Connecticut
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Attaching Resumes or Activity Sheets to an Application – The Right Way

In my last post I talked about an interesting LinkedIn discussion among college professionals as to whether or not students should have a resume or activity sheet. Now I want to tackle another question:

Should students attach a resume or activity sheet to their college application?

For that answer I turned to friend and colleague Betsy Bell, a college consultant whose company is Acorn Educational Consulting in Wilton, Connecticut. Here’s what Betsy says:

“I have my students create a resume so I can see what their activities are and their level of commitment in each activity. If their activities are easily covered on the application with all the necessary descriptions included, their resumes are not included in the application.

If there is not enough space on the application for good descriptions, and their resume has more in-depth descriptions of their leadership roles, then we will upload their resume.

If the student is applying to the very top schools they might be asked to restrict their resume to one page, or not include one at all. I read the fine print just to make sure we are following the rules.

On the common application there are 12 spaces for activities. Usually that is plenty for most students, but there is limited space for descriptions, and in these cases I would have the resume uploaded in the “additional information” space which is after the essay on the common application. Each school might have very specific requirements and I read them very carefully as we do not want to irritate the admissions people.”

To summarize:

DO include a resume/activity sheet:

  • If there is not enough space on the application and the resume has more in-depth descriptions of a student’s leadership roles
  • Upload to the “additional information” space on the common application

DON’T include a resume/activity sheet:

  • If activities are easily covered on the application with all the necessary descriptions included
  • In other words: Don’t Duplicate Information

READ the fine print and  follow the rules

  • You don’t want to annoy the college admissions people

Thanks, Betsy!

Read  Resumes and Activity Sheets: Good Idea When Applying to College?


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Resumes and Activity Sheets: Good Idea When Applying to College?

Are resumes or activity sheets a good idea to use when applying to college?

This question recently sparked a lively debate among admissions professionals on LinkedIn.  Interestingly, the answers were split.  Here’s a representative sampling:

Admission CounselorsAdvice:

Joanne Robertson, Assistant Director, Transfer Admissions at Quinnipiac University, says yes to activity sheets but no to resumes: “Although it is a great icebreaker for the student to provide us with an activity sheet, unless they are applying for one of our majors that need documented hours for the admission requirement, a resume is definitely overkill. I have had the unfortunate experience of talking to parents who overwhelm us with details on “internships” etc. Seriously, then why is your child applying to college? Sounds like they are already set.”

Warren Harman, Admission Professional at Clarkson University, says yes to resumes and activity sheets:  “Every time I open an application I ask “Who are you?” Hopefully, the student’s application will answer that question. The resume gives our team a better idea of what the student is most passionate about. Call it what you will, a resume or activities sheet gives us a better feel for how happy the student would be to attend our school.”

Ken Higgins, Assistant Dean of Undergraduate Admissions at Sacred Heart University, also says yes to resumes and activities sheets: “Oftentimes I’ll ask a student if they have any sort of resume or an activities sheet so we can go over that and discuss each bullet or topic. That gives me a sense of their extracurricular activities as well.”

Opinions differ, so what should you do?

  • When admissions professionals didn’t like resumes it was usually because of their unnecessary detail and length (some they saw were six pages long). If your resume is more than a couple of pages, try putting together an activities list that doesn’t include the typical resume stuff like where you go to school, GPA, scores, etc.
  • Don’t include huge explanations and don’t include every single thing you did in the past four years.
  • Don’t be fooled into thinking you definitely need a resume/activity sheet. If everything you want to say is easily conveyed through what they ask on the application, then don’t include anything extra.
  • Don’t duplicate information already provided in the application.

Look for part two: “Attaching Resumes or Activity Sheets to an Application – The Right Way”