May Checklist for Juniors
This past week “The Choice,” the New York Times’ blog on college admissions, published an excellent checklist for college-bound juniors.
Here’s the list:
- Prepare for Standardized Testing
- Ask Your Teachers for Letters of Recommendation
- Review Your Academic Schedule for Next Year
- Make Plans to Visit Colleges Over the Summer Months
- Start Thinking About Your College Essays (my favorite – wonder why
) - Hold On to Those Papers!
- Make Your Summer Plans
- Finish the School Year in Strong Fashion
Read the entire blogpost at http://thechoice.blogs.nytimes.com/2012/05/02/calendar-may-juniors/#more-44511
related posts:
College Essay Writing: Make it Easy! Keep a Journal
SAT vs. ACT: Which Test to Take?
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7 Tips for Parents to Reduce College Application Stress
Face it: Applying to college is stressful.
Which colleges should be on your list? Which ones can you afford? What questions do you need to ask? What exactly is the Common Application, and why is your child about to have a meltdown over all those essays???
Here are 7 Tips for Parents to Reduce College Application Stress
Be Realistic. For most students, getting in to the school of their dreams isn’t a lock. Sometimes it’s because they reach too high, but often it’s because schools receive so many applications that qualified students are turned away.
Work with a guidance counselor or other professional to come up with a realistic range of schools, and encourage your student to find several things about each one that he or she can get excited about. And remember: A rejection letter isn’t a sign of failure. If your student has chosen well, he or she will end up at a school that’s a good fit.
Listen. It’s natural to want to be involved in the college application process, but be careful not to project your own hopes and dreams. Allow your student to discuss what he or she wants from a college experience and listen to those ideas. Provide helpful feedback – and keep on listening.
Be Financially Honest. If money’s an issue, be honest with your student early on. That way he or she will be able to choose a range of affordable schools and explore scholarship opportunities. Don’t let your student set his or her heart on a school you can’t afford.
Help Your Student Get Organized. Set up a plan with your student early on. Help organize paperwork, create alerts for upcoming deadlines, and set goals for completing essays and filling out applications and financial aid requirements.
Use both real and virtual filing systems for college communications, and try Evernote (which I wrote about in a previous blog). Evernote lets you upload notes, photos, videos, and documents from mobile devices and tablets, and access them anywhere. So, for instance, on college visits students can make notes on tablets and take photos and videos on their phones, and then access everything on their computers when they get home (Great for remembering what to write in the “Why do you want to go to our school” essay).
Don’t Micromanage. Be a guide, not a leader. Allow your student to take ownership in successfully navigating the college admissions process, and be his or her greatest cheerleader. Your student will engage, feel independent, and ultimately become more informed and confident. Those are great qualities to take to college.
Don’t Write the Essays. Help proofread and check for grammar and spelling mistakes, but don’t choose your student’s essay topics, “improve” word choice, add phrases, or even write entire paragraphs. College admissions readers know the difference between an essay written by someone who’s 17 and someone who’s 40. Reading an essay engineered by mom or dad doesn’t make them happy; they want to get to know the student.
Escape the Family War Zone. Despite a family’s best support, sometimes a student’s stress level can build to overload. If you’re concerned about meltdowns, missed deadlines, and becoming the “application police,” consider enlisting a professional to help with college search, essay writing skills, application filing, etc. The peace and ultimate success will be worth it.
College Application Time Can Be Smooth Sailing — If You Know How to Navigate the Waters.
related posts
Organize Your College Search: Try Evernote
links
Washington Post: Tips for Maximizing Your College Admissions Visit
Advice for Parents on Surviving College Application Stress
Dealing with the Stress of College Applications
New York Times: College’s High Cost, Before You Even Apply
..Sharon Epstein is owner of First Impressions College Consulting
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Attend an April College Fair in Your Area
This a partial list of the April college fairs sponsored by National College Fairs. I encourage you to go if there’s one in your area.
Click on the name of each city for more info. Find the complete list at National College Fairs.
Hartford College Fair
Tuesday, April 3
9:00a.m. – 11:30a.m.
6:30p.m. – 8:30p.m.
Wednesday, April 4
9:00a.m. – 11:30a.m.
Connecticut Convention Center
Hartford, CT
Buffalo College Fair
Tuesday, April 3
9:00a.m. – 12:00p.m.
6:00p.m. – 8:30p.m.
Wednesday, April 4
9:00a.m. – 12:00p.m.
Buffalo Niagara Convention Center, Buffalo, NY
Dallas/Fort Worth College Fair
Monday, April 9
4:00p.m. – 8:00p.m.
Irving Convention Center at Las Colinas, Irving, TX
Houston College Fair
Thursday, April 12
12:30p.m. – 2:30p.m.
6:00p.m. – 8:00p.m.
Reliant Center, Houston, TX
San Francisco College Fair
Saturday, April 21
1:30p.m. – 4:30p.m.
Concourse Exhibition Center, San Francisco, CA
Cleveland College Fair
Sunday, April 22
1:00p.m. – 4:00p.m.
Wolstein Center at Cleveland State University, Cleveland, OH
New York College Fair
Sunday, April 22
11:00a.m. – 4:00p.m.
Jacob K. Javits Convention Center, New York, NY
Orange County College Fair
Sunday, April 22
1:30p.m. – 4:30p.m.
Anaheim Convention Center, Anaheim, CA
New Jersey College Fair
Wednesday, April 25
9:00a.m. – 12:00p.m.
6:00p.m. – 9:00p.m.
Thursday, April 26
9:00a.m. – 12:00p.m.
New Jersey Convention and Exposition Center, Edison, NJ
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Connect with Me on Pinterest! Tips for Writing a Great Intro to Your College Application Essay
Connect with me on Pinterest! I’ll be posting easy-to-follow tips on writing successful college application essays as well as grammar, funny bits to help you through the tough times, etc. Then create your own Pinterest board – repin my posts and find other inspiration to help you with your college application and essay writing. I’ll see you on Pinterest!
related post on writing great college essay introductions:
How to Succeed with the Common App Essay 500 Word Limit: Essay Samples
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College Essay Writing Program – April 25 Darien Library
It’s that time of year again! I’m going to be speaking at 7pm April 25 at the Darien Library, in Darien, Connecticut, with my friend and colleague Matthew Dempsey, Assistant Director of Admission at Fairfield University on The ABC’s of Writing a Great College Application Essay.
Why this Program is GREAT:
It’s from two important points of view. I’m going to talk about how to write a great college application essay, and Matthew will talk about what admission committees look for when they read those essays.
What You’ll Learn: I’ll give you an overview of the college essay writing process, including what colleges look for, good and bad, topic choice, and how to make every essay unique. Then Matthew will discuss what kind of essays work and don’t work, and how essays are viewed in the context of the entire application.
Who Should Come: High school students and their families. Freshman and sophomores are welcome, too. It’s never too early to begin to understand what this application business is all about!
Put it on your calendar and learn about writing a great college application essay! See you at the Darien Library on April 25.
..Sharon Epstein is owner of First Impressions College Consulting
Need help? I work with students everywhere: in-person, over the phone, and by computer. Visit my website for more info.
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Explaining a Bad Grade in a College Application Essay
I worked with a young woman who’d missed a good chunk of her junior and senior years due to illness. Even though she tried to make up the work, her grades suffered. When I asked if she was going to explain her illness in her college application, she said no, she didn’t think an excuse would help her chances.
In fact, the opposite is true.
First, let’s be clear about the difference between an excuse and a reason. Getting marked down because you did the work but couldn’t get out of bed early enough to show up for attendance is an excuse. But if you have a good reason – illness, family problems, etc., you owe it to yourself and to the college to let them know.
Here’s a real-life scenario from an article about admissions at Butler University:
The admissions committee received an application from a student who had gotten straight As freshman and sophomore year. Then his grades tanked.
“In his junior year, F,F,D,D,D,” said Chris Potts, Associate Director of Admissions… “No explanation anywhere, nothing – straight As, and then just bites it junior year.”
What happened? Turned out his dad died, and he was left without a father and having to support his mother.
Problem was, that information wasn’t in the application.
Wendy Livingston, Senior Assistant Dean of Admission at The College of William & Mary, says on their blog, “…everything about your application is considered in context (school, regional, experiential, personal…you name the context.) That’s what holistic review is all about. You’re not considered in a vacuum; you’re considered based on who you are, where you’ve been and what type of application you put forward.“
So if your transcript has bumps and there’s a valid reason, let the admissions committee know. You can include it in your college application essay or elsewhere in your college application. But give them the whole picture. Your chances will be better for it.
..Sharon Epstein is owner of First Impressions College Consulting
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The University of New Haven’s College of Business has extended the deadline for its Dean’s Scholarship Challenge to Sunday, March 18, to allow more students to take part in its national online competition.
Four students will win full-tuition scholarships, each worth more than $120,000.
Participants are asked to create a Facebook page for a business they wish to launch. The competition is open to any incoming freshman or transfer student who has been accepted to UNH College of Business.
For more information visit www.facebook.com/deanschallenge.






