Writing College Application Essays: First Commandment: “Know Thyself”
Question: What’s more important than the topic of your college application essay?
Answer: Knowing who you are.
What do I mean when I say “know who you are?”
- Know what kind of person you are
- Know what your values are
- Know why you make the choices you do
- Know how you want to represent yourself to the colleges who will be reading your college application essay.
This can be tough. We usually don’t write about ourselves, or think about what makes us interesting or what our goals are. We usually don’t reflect. But reflection is very important. You can even do it before you choose a topic. In some cases it will lead to a topic. And wouldn’t that be great?!
Question: How do you figure out who you are?
Answer: Do the research. Interview your subject.
You’d do research on a subject for a school paper, right? Of course. Your college application essay is no different – it’s just that the subject is you. So let’s get started. Here’s how you get to know yourself:
1. Schedule: You need a quiet time with no intrusions. It can be one longer session or several shorter ones, but try to get it done over a few days at most. Your don’t want long interruptions of time – you want your thoughts to flow.
2. Prep: Make sure you have a pen and paper or a computer to write down your answers. After each question give yourself time to think.
3. Interview questions. Here are 6 questions to get you started:
1. What are 3 values I respect? For instance — respect, loyalty, courage? (There are many values you can think about. Google them.)
2. How do I reflect these values in my choices?
3. How would I describe myself to a stranger?
4. What do my friends like about me?
5. What’s been the hardest thing in my life?
6. What are my goals and how do I plan to reach them?
You’ll probably think of more questions as you go along. After all, you know your subject best.
When you start writing you’ll find you may not use all of your answers in your college application essay. That’s okay; you have a reservoir of material to draw from. What’s even better is these answers don’t belong to anyone else — they can’t. They help define who you are. They detail what makes you interesting, what your journey has been. No one else will be able to write your essay. That’s the way it should be. That’s what colleges are looking for in a great college application essay.
One more thing about your interview subject: Make sure he or she is honest. If you allow your subject to skate by with half-truths or skirt important answers you won’t really get to know him. Neither will the college you want to attend. And that would be a real shame.